Cave
exploring is a
wonderful teacher of rudimentary engineering. When we are held within
a form, such as within the naturally formed structure of a cave
particularly, the outer peripheries speak inwardly to us. In other
words we can sense
the shape of this structure from the inside.
Architecture
has long been known to inspire and provoke in this way; cathedrals
offer perfect examples to this, with their ribbed-roof, chest-like,
forms. Alike to giant men laying upon their backs, this chest cavity
draws the man within to be standing (in this perspective) from the
place of the heart. This in turn shall affect his prayer and his
consciousness, as it takes into itself the overall shell of the
cathedral’s beams and walls about him.
Men
naturally sense the walls around them. Added to this, they feel
their form.
Inorganic angular forms created by walls were meant to enhance the
thinking, giving over to particular crystalline structures which were
too sharp-edged and mean, (‘mean’ as in standard), whereas many
sound halls are suitably developed to imitate the shape of the outer
and inner ear.
Further
to this it is said to be an easier death, were that one were to part
this life outdoors! For without any enclosures surrounding the
individual the subtle bodies slip readily into freedom, sensing less
deterrence, confusion and persuasion … Conversely it is preferable
therefore to nurse an ill person indoors
and within a room which is best shaped to suit their healing. Babies
respond healthily to being held in a swaddle, and cradled in a
dome-shaped canopy.
Would
that architects could pay more attention to the inside structures,
than expending all of their creativity upon the outer! It
is internally, not externally, that the buildings become significant.
And
so when we venture into a cave, one which has been crafted by the
spirits of time and the elementals of nature, we may come to the
sense of the inherent beauty of perfect and particular form.
Making
peace with relatives:
These papers have largely been written for the care and consideration
of the one who would read them. Primarily the objectives are designed
to be of worthwhile appeal to the person themselves, for it is our
conviction that a value discovered within one man does radiate out
into the world and take its effect there too, if proven, if true.
This
is an important qualification to make … one which could be
misconstrued, yet is not intended to be. It is just to say that we
expect the text to be viewed for self-profit, and that there is no
shame in this, and no sense would that it were otherwise.
Self-profit
cannot be gained at the expense of another’s owning. Karmicly it is
not practicable. Ethics are taught to us in very simple
demonstrations – and each in turn is brought to sympathies for
others via such accountability along the way.
Yet,
from our perspective, humanity underestimates its self-worth and
potential, and has a difficulty in earnestly attempting to further
itself in ways which do work well for them. There is much self
degradation occurring in countless ways, needlessly.
Eventually this
will try even the patience of eternity!
It
is true to say that if this text was written and read from only the
humanitarian and self-less perspective the development of the reader
would, in natural consequence, have to improve. The effects of
good/healthy contemplations and deeds are (over time) more of the
same. The process is enstrengthening overall. The path of the ascetic
proved this, in that they could renounce
the self and yet
at the same time enhance
their self into the bargain.
However
this approach calls for a definitive self-consciousness which of
itself decides
the reasoning and weighs the goodness, for
itself.
Within
our own personal orbits we are positioned greatly by the magnetic
influences given out by our family members (whilst they are living).
Unconsciously we are effected by this, regardless of how far away we
may be from them. Whether or not we have a regular communication our
relationship with our parents, our grandparents, our brothers and
sisters, aunties and uncles and children of our own, all of these
people in existence converge with us invisibly.
Well,
here one could say “well,
yes we are all different of course, and yet the same as well, etc.
etc.” which
would be offering really no great illumination at all. Or
…
Nations
who have warred against each other, especially those of neighboring
regions, are often reborn into the other’s race immediately after
the passing. You can imagine that the concentration given to this
other race sets up the very attractive forces which take them into
that experience further along. The soul craves experience and seeks
it where it can. The ego of a man also wants for more and goes where
the activity has past flourished. The people (or their context of
living) flames as a beacon to the would-be incarnate. We are
attracted into reactive forces, which may or may not be compatible to
us; and more likely are
not.
Yet
when born, we do become attributed with particular racial
characteristics and family characteristics now inherited and known to
us which hitherto we were without. This is also an experience to be
dealt with, as once again it is most likely that these new clothes of
the personality are not natural to us in our own development.
Perhaps
one fundamental problem lies in the expectation that family members
should think and live similarly. Harmony is proved most wonderful
amongst a collective of differing contributors; it is not so
experienced amongst a pool of sameness. When family members try to
prove their sameness as some kind of loving qualification amongst
each other, it denies their inner life and who they are. It goes on
then to cause much of a severance from one another because of the
necessary lies within the reality trying to support and sustain the
unreal – the unsustainable.
Regarding
the differences of all - and the marked friction which has been
ongoing and perhaps to be now resolved- (particularly if you do not
want to be drawn together so intimately with these folk again) you
can begin by a) accepting their inner and outer life as belonging
uniquely to them - and not reflecting yourself in any way - and b)
expecting them to do the same. In this way we ‘leave our family’
to become more of ourselves, but honor those members as well, as
they should be – loved
for who
they are.
This will bring peace. Even if it brings more friction at the outset,
it will bring peace. For you have loved them all the more, and you
are no longer trying to see yourself in images that do not match what
you see inside.